When you are faced with difficult situations, trials and hardships, you have two options at hand. You either grit your teeth and do absolutely everything you can to persevere, or you give up.
There are never more than two options for you. Ether do something or not do it.
Whether it is a job, a social interaction, a goal, or anything at all, you will be faced with obstacles on your road to getting where ever it is you want to get to. No matter where you have set your end point to reach. No matter where your destination might be, you will never get there without having to test what you are made of. You have to put your heart and soul on the line. You have to battle and see if you are worthy of attaining whatever it is you want. You have to prove to yourself that you are capable of being the person that deserves all the things you want. We don't get things handed to us by anyone, we have to take everything with our own two hands. And in order to do so, we might pass whatever tests life throws at us. Only when we come out the other side, beat up by not defeated, only then will your frame of mind will shift into one of a warrior deserving the treasures of his battles. Only then will fruit of his labor be apparent and find themselves within reach.
Find a goal, fight for it, prove yourself worthy, and claim your treasures.